After I came home from the war, I experienced visions—glimpses of a deeper reality, including the realization that we are all One. One outcome of those visions was my decision to take the Bodhisattva vow: to liberate all sentient beings. That vow, and the visions that preceded it, became guiding forces in my life. They made it possible for me to hear—and to answer—a calling to become a nurse.
I returned to school for three years, then began work as a registered nurse, later becoming a leader, educator, and, after further training, a family nurse practitioner (FNP). My career carried me through community health, hospice care, and, in its final twelve years, primary care. Whether working in hospice or with refugees and immigrants, my focus remained constant: to reduce and relieve suffering. I was inspired by Leslie and for many years worked in partnership with her.
In hospice care, this meant addressing pain, loneliness, fear, advanced illness, family distress, and a host of other challenges. In refugee health, it meant responding to trauma, cultural and personal isolation, poverty, illness, loss, and more. In education, the goals were to help students grasp foundational principles, cultivate responsibility, strive for competence, realize their potential, and embody compassion—along with other essential aspects of caring.
As part of a broader effort to inform and support others working to reduce suffering—and thereby contribute to the collective movement toward liberation—I wrote numerous articles, papers, and chapters, and authored or co-authored three books:
Terminal Illness: A Guide to Nursing Care (1995, 1999, Lippincott)
This book explores the individual, familial, cultural, and spiritual dimensions of the end-of-life experience. It offers practical guidance on managing symptoms such as pain, dyspnea, and nausea, and includes a detailed section outlining the natural progression and metastasis patterns of the 16 most lethal cancers—enabling clinicians to anticipate complications and intervene more effectively.
Refugee and Immigrant Health, with Lance Rasbridge (2004, Cambridge University Press)
The first section addresses the refugee experience—including physical and mental health, spiritual and religious influences, women’s health, and cultural frameworks. The second section profiles 31 cultural groups frequently seen in refugee and immigrant care, including Afghan, Cambodian, Haitian, and Mexican populations.
Infectious and Tropical Diseases, with Tao Sheng Kwan-Gett and Carrie Kovarik (2006, Elsevier Science)
Written for primary care providers, missionaries, and refugee health workers, this compact guide opens with an overview of infectious and tropical diseases, followed by 647 pages covering over 90 conditions—from cholera and malaria to lice infestation and schistosomiasis. The final section helps clinicians link symptoms to geographic regions and likely diagnoses. Designed for fast settings, the book fits in a lab coat pocket and features a soft, durable binding.
Looking back now, at these books and the work in hospice and among refugees – the progression of the work and books and their intent, from the first sentences to the last – I see that I did do my best to live out that early vision of Oneness, to relieve suffering, and to honor the vow for Liberation.
I also remember that there were times when nothing could be done about the suffering and all that was left to do was to bear witness – “My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and watch with Me.”